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Dare To Ask

Dare to ask

As many of you know spirituality or the experience of spirituality or your spiritual journey doesn’t have to end when you become a mother. I am working on a book titled “spiritual mothering” so I would know.
Spirituality changes, transforms.. when you become a mother. You gain a different perspective on your spiritual journey, on creating and on source and the energetic connection of your soul and those around you to, source.

Many moms almost gloat and brag about their martyr role. I know I sure have my moments when I get caught up in it but I never identify with it. I am a mom, but I am many things and mom is just one of them. If I were to identify with 1 word it would be creator. I am a creator of many things, portraits, a solid bond between myself and my children, pancakes and cookies, nice cups of tea, good conversations, books, ..  That’s a trap we simply have to rise above, identifying with the “martyr” role of motherhood, the “#momlife”. Especially during these challenging corona times where we’re all quarantined and where we often have no alone time when we are at home with the kids.

That’s when the title of this article came to me from source: “Dare To Ask”. I like it so much that I’m even considering adding another chapter to my book titled just that. And I have had my table of contents determined for months now. But “Dare To Ask” is something that many moms just refuse to do, out of pride, out of stubbornness, out of habit. But daring to ask for help is the ultimate act of self-love as a mother. It’s of the utmost importance to invest in yourself emotionally as much as you invest in others. As a mother, and as a person in general.

I’ve written an entire chapter in my book about it, I’m still working on it. There are lots of creative ways to find time alone with yourself and with spirit. To be present in the moment and grounded and calm. And if there is one thing that mothers are good at it’s being creative, we created small humans after all. So be creative. If possible find moments alone. And if that’s not possible, there are many creative ways to find moments of peace while being surrounded by other people.
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When you wake up and you are lucky enough to have a partner at home with you, dare to ask for help. Dare to take a moment to sit in the grass and drink a coffee or a cup of tea. Dare to ask for alone time to recharge because not only are you hitting the reset button on yourself instead of overloading, you’re also teaching your children that time on their own is an essential part of life.

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angels healing HSP LOA/manifestation

Being present in pandemic times.

As a collective we are going through unprecedented times. Times that we have not yet seen before in our modern day society. Times where we are being forced (by law even) to slow down or even stop completely. For some people this causes a feeling of panic in their chest, for others relief, and for others a feeling of confusion. What is this unknown and how do we deal with it? We’re being asked to really trust in this unknown future. But dropping in, and stopping the rat race is what we are all being asked to do right now, by source. Your source within you. The one that many of you lost touch with when placed here on this earth. Where do you come from? Who are you? Many of us would not be able to answer that question when asked. But they would be able to answer a bunch of trivial questions about trivial things. But the essential question “who are you” is one that many do not know the answer to. The answer is simple. You are love, you are source energy. Who are you? You are so and so and you are x years old. No.. who ARE you.. Has anyone ever really asked you that question? They have not.

I Am that I Am.

Moses asks what he is to say to the Israelites when they ask which God has sent him to them, and source replies, “I am that I am, ‘I am’ has sent me to you.” During these pandemic times more and more people are discovering that they are the I Am, that they just..are.. Being asked to slow down is a beautiful thing. A necessary phase that we all have to experience sometimes. An intuitive phase that many people often resist. 93838234_3976804045664905_6057127807010471936_nThey will deny themselves that they ARE the I Am presence. The presence and energy that is within every moment as long as you are present enough. They will numb themselves with so much stuff, so much multitasking, so many things to do and places to go and people to see, that they don’t see themselves.

In what aspects of life have you found that you have slowed down and how have you actually gained more from doing less?

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angels healing inner earth LOA/manifestation

Choose the timeline of love and health!

I haven’t posted yet about this recent corona crisis that’s moving all over the globe. But the time has come to share my thoughts. Many people are going into doubt and fear, even lightworkers and people who are usually not easily swayed by fear or darkness. People who know themselves to be source and light and servants of the one I AM, are  even doubting the trajectory of our precious Gaia. When all that ever happens.. good or bad, always serves the greater good and the ascension plan of our Gaia.

Control.. is an illusion, knowing that you are here and your life is always supported and held by the Source that is within you, that is you, and that is home, the love of the one I AM Creator source energy that is always and eternally connected with you in this lifetime, and all past ones, you are here as a servant of the light, and wherever light shines darkness has to disappear.

90599177_1969165659894011_5743608547455795200_nI’m noticing that there are many people are being influenced by certain fear propaganda conspiracy theories about this covid-19 virus that may or may not be true. But the only real truth is that it doesn’t matter if you vibrate above it, it doesn’t matter what theory is true, since all they are, are timelines possible depending on the amount of energy you fuel it with. The only truth is source energy which is what you are and how you ended up here and how you will go home again. 90508571_1966764670134110_109564375202791424_nAnd surrendering over to the I AM is what will give you happiness and truth. Choosing your OWN timeline of health, joy, love and oneness, a choice we can all make since we all have dominion over our own soul and can not be owned, only by the light which even offers us the freedom to choose our own destinies. So choose wisely. Choose to vibrate at a way higher level than any negative fear based theory or disease, whether it be true or not on a certain 3-Dimensional plane. You make your own truth, choose the one that vibrates highest and is in alignment with source because that is your essential truth.

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angels healing LOA/manifestation past lives

Twin Flames – what they are, and what they are not!

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By far the best podcast I’ve ever listened to about twin flames. If you would like to find out more about twin flames and get down to earth info that’s grounded in real experience. Listen to this amazing podcast and forget everything you’ve ever read or heard about twin flames so far.

For a long time I’ve avoided the topic of twin flames on my spiritual path because it is probably THE topic that is misused most in the spiritual community. So it was easier to just not go there..

What a twin flame is in my opinion, and what a twin flame is not: 

❌A twin flame union is not an over romanticized perfect relationship in which everything goes perfect and you always agree and never argue  

✔️A twin flame union is the purest form of mirroring Self in an external person which causes every shadow aspect to come up in both parties which causes energetic flare ups/arguments basically with Self outwardly projected into the other person. 

❌A twin flame union is not a relationship that never requires work or communication about things, where things go smoothly. 

✔️A twin flame union is however a bond that requires work every day, constantly where transparent communication is the only option.

❌A twin flame union is not a relationship where you always want to be together and being apart is terrible. 

✔️An average twin flame union is a relationship of magnetism, pushing and pulling where even after union and living together there is pushing and pulling which allows for accelerated mirrored learning to occur at a way faster rate than single souls do on their own, which in turns causes twins to need decent times of space to be alone to integrate the downloads or mirrored Self aspects before uniting again to work on more aspects together.

❌A twin flame union is NOT a way to spiritually bypass finding true inner love. 

✔️A twin flame union will only occur AND only withstand the pressure of the magnetism once finding true SELF love is obtained first.

Despite it being the hardest and most challenging one, it is the purest form of integration of ourselves and our partner possible, you will not be able to bond more closely with any other person than with your true twin flame, because they are the mirror aspect of yourself. Often the pairing is also a very unlikely one and they have very different personalities, because each soul carries opposite aspects of the spectrum to form the whole together. They do often have similar values and main interests. 

Watch or listen to the podcast below to get a really decent view of what a true twin flame union really looks like! 

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Lion’s gate, conscious motherhood, adversity==>contrast==>growth.

Lion’s gate

We’ve passed most of this year’s Lion’s gate and have one day left tomorrow. As every year it causes a big energetic shift within us, whether we’re aware of it or not. Whether you are up to date on the latest astrological developments and know what is going on cosmically, whether you believe that we are influenced by certain star/planetary alignments or not. Most people go through a certain shift during this time of the year.

We see it on the news, even Gaia herself shifts and purges energy, releasing old energy (tornadoes in Amsterdam?), more emotional violence taking place (shootings, attacks, murders), no one escapes the shift that occurs in energy during this astrological new year basically.

Especially because this year’s Lion’s gate followed a pretty intense Mercury Retrograde, it was very palpable and the contrast was immense. The Lions Gate is basically a star alignment between Gaia and Sirius. It’s called this way because it occurs in the astrological sign of Leo. And each year when these stars line up because of this alignment high frequency vibrations are released that influence our auric fields and energetic bodies. It resonates with certain particles of our system which causes intense and rapid spurts or growth which can be accompanied by growing pains so to speak. Which for us creates more spiritual activation.

So if you’ve been feeling off, experienced very high emotions one moment, very low the next, it’s your system integrating all these frequencies and the best thing to do during this accelerated time of astrological surges is to just flow with what comes. With the feelings and don’t resist, it’s this resistance that creates more tension and just makes life harder. Which brings me to my next topic.

conscious motherhood

These surges and energy shifts are also noticeable on social media. I can tell from just reading the daily posts that appear in some of the spiritual circles I am a member of online. There is one online women’s circle where a woman, conscious mother wrote about how much empathy she felt for mothers who were clearly losing it during this specific time. And if you are a mom.. I know you’re lying if you plan on telling me that in all of your mothering years you have never felt this way. Because I know you have, I have! It’s motherhood and it’s challenging but it’s possible, and even more, it’s growth and it’s strengthening. She felt bad for the moms who were sat on the couch in tears, crying day after day about how hard it was, how they felt like they had lost themselves. And I feel their pain too. I commented on her post because I too see it and have experienced it and that is partly also what got me into the idea of offering an e-book about this topic. What I told her was the following

“It is important that we, as moms demand from themselves that we thrive as a mom, as a woman and as a human being. Because that is the only way our kids can really see the joy of life, by us setting the example. Sure it’s hard.. I have a 5 year old now who was colicky, highly sensitive and immediately overstimulated as a baby, when too many people were near her, a super light sleeper.. you get it, and it is easy to feel like you’re becoming a victim to this and I insist that I find ways to love life and be the best mom I can be at the same time. Energy does so much! If you live in a relaxed energy and just flow with what comes and stand in your creative power as a woman and do what you love while still trying to be a good mom (I have to admit I needed to work on this so much and it took me about 3 years to kind of master this) then your kid will see it and will want to follow your example. She is a handful.. but these kids chose us to be their physical guardians and vessels for them to enter the planet in this time of ascension. We can do this AND be the best versions of ourselves! I can relate, I feel like that too, and I acknowledge those feelings when they come up, feeling like it is too much, too hard, too intense, but I immediately check myself, and go ok.. I am not truly aligning with that on the grander scale, I am feeling like this in the moment, I can change it now, and choose a different feeling and experience for myself.”

There ARE ways to still be a good mom and still make time for yourself

There ARE ways to insist on self-development and still be a good mom

There ARE ways to connect with spirit and your God-essence and still be a good mom

  • accept help
  • include your kids in your activities
  • model conscious behavior
  • spend more time outside
  • organisation is key

Right now as I am developing a growing baby bump again and plagued by the occasional exhaustion. I am working on illustrations for an awesome kid’s book written by a friend of mine, active kindergartner at home for the summer, regular day job and attempting to offer other creative things and little by little jotting down paragraphs for this little e-book. If I can do it then other moms can do it too. So moms, let this Lion’s gate be the powerful surge of energy that you need to truly even become more radiant and stand in your creative power and let go of what’s holding you back!